Let’s Talk About What You Really Want

"Discover deeper connection, real pleasure, and zero judgment"

Everything Starts with A Conversation

What I Do

My name is Nicole and I am a certified, sex and relationship and coach, with a background in Theology, and Christian ministry.

I help South Africans (and international clients) from conservative and faith-based backgrounds reclaim joy, intimacy, and deeper connection.

My work is about helping clients with the most intimate and vulnerable part of their lives. Together we create a better understanding of sexual nature, overcoming limits to intimacy, and create a happy sex life.

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Watch & Learn with Nicole

YouTube

Watch local insights and real talk on love, intimacy, pleasure, and everything in between—served with honesty, humour, and heart. 

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Blog Posts

Local stories, expert tips, and fresh takes on intimacy, love, pleasure, and sexual wellness from a South African coach.
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Join The conversation

Upcoming Events

Join in-person and online workshops and events designed to open hearts, minds, and healthy conversations around intimacy in South Africa. Not to mention give out some great advice!

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Ready to Reconnect—with Yourself, or Someone Else?

Let’s start with a free call. No pressure, just honest conversation

Book a FREE intro / discovery call with me and we can talk about your concerns and see if you would benefit from coaching and if I would be the best fit for you and your specific situation.

All intro calls are 30min and take place online only. 

You can also reach out to me via email at [email protected] with questions.